Having a Mod wedding: Part II - That's entertainment

I mentioned in Preparing a Mod Wedding that music was the central theme for our special day. We basically based the ceremony on a Soul and Rock concert with us being the main act.

One of the hardest decisions we had to make had to do with the songs we would play walking down the aisle. I finally settled on The Precisions’ 1964 Northern Soul hit (Just Like) Romeo & Juliet. I just love that song. It’s upbeat, funny and accurately reflects my quirky personality.

 

I wasn’t looking for a solonel march to the alter. I wanted to burst in dancing and singing. And that’s exactly what I did. I think the “audience” was pleasantly surprised when Ben, Eric and Christophe jumped up and joined me as my back vocals, swaying to the beat in harmony.

Nikki walked in on one of our all-time favorite songs, It Must Be Love by Madness. No Here comes The Bride for her! It took my lovely lady a while before settling on that song. It’s easy to fall in the tacky and cliché trap. When she revealed her final choice to me, I had no idea she even liked that song. I was elated! The most important part was that I hadn’t associated that song to an ex-girlfriend.

The exit song was quickly picked. All Day And All of The Night by The Kinks was an obvious choice for us. We didn’t want your typical slow paced romantic tune. We wanted to leave on a bang! Obviously, we didn’t take the traditional route. Besides, this was far from being a traditional ceremony. So as soon as I kissed the bride, we put on our shades, turned around and rocked down the aisle. The party was on!

We opted for Signed, Sealed, Delivered by the legendary Stevie Wonder to be introduced for the first time as husband and wife. “Here I am baby. Signed, sealed, delivered. I’m yours,” sounds pretty appropriate for the occasion.

DJ Papa Bill took care of setting the mood during dinner spinning the best sweet soul music the 60s had to offer.

To kick off the evening’s festivities, I had a little surprise in store for the bride. I had been practicing for a month, in secret, a song that is one of our guilty pleasures. Appropriately enough, I sang Adam Sandler’s ballad I Wanna Grow Old With You from the movie The Wedding Singer. Far from a being a Mod classic, my partner in crime, guitarist Daniel Fiocco from Mod band Le Chelsea Beat, gave it a definite 60s groove. I might not have the sweet voice of Otis Redding or the power vocals of a Roger Daltrey but the important thing is that my wife seemed to genuinely enjoy it. I think I pulled it off!

We were very fortunate to have 3 great live acts as the night’s bona fide entertainment. First was my mate Eric’s band, Les Séparatwists. They gave us quite a performance. With classic hits like Peter Gunn, the James Bond and the Pink Panther theme, they had the floor packed in no time. I was touched when my father came up to me and said: “They’re amazing! I could listen to them all night.” I think the band was quite surprised when they were asked for an encore. The acclaim was well-deserved.

Next was Ben & Zoë, better known as The Soul Distributors. Black Clouds was to be our first dance. Let me tell you how amazing this 16-year-old singer is. Picture Amy Winehouse full of potential AND sober. When Ben sent me a link to his demo on YouTube, we both fell in love with his original composition. How can you not? Now if these guys don’t hit it big one day, there’s something wrong with this world. I’m just proud to say that they had their first public performance at our wedding. You should also check out Ben’s Soul record label in the making Papa Bill Records for updates.

Our final act of the evening was my favorite Power Pop French Mod trio, Kid Sentiment. They were dynamic to say the least. The added privilege you get when you tie the knot is that you get to ask the band to play your favorite songs off their new album. Available on iTune, give them a listen.

With the crowd warmed up, I had no problem keeping the guests moving with my own DJ set. Why DJ at your own wedding? I don’t know. I guess I like to see friends and family enjoy themselves and knowing that I lit the fire.

Eric took over and had no problem keeping the floor packed until the wee hours of the night.

Now that it's all said and done, I wouldn't change a thing. Except maybe for the fact that a had raging fever the whole night. But that must the effects of love. Now, off into the sunset...

Mod wedding fashions

My previous post focused mainly on a how I got a custom Mod suit made for my wedding. It would be a travesty not to have a look at the breathtaking dress my wife was wearing.

The original idea was to have my mother-in-law make one for her. She’s a very skilled seamstress and this wouldn’t have been her first wedding gown. She did make the dresses for my four nieces. From all the compliments they got, my sister’s children certainly hit a 10 on the cuteness scale.

Sophie and Julie posing in their a-line dresses and go-go boots

Marie, the futur model

As my wife was shopping with her mother for the fabric for her dress, she came across this number. Not only was it exactly what she was looking for but it was also incredibly affordable. Taking into account the cost of the material and the time it would take to make it, this was THE ONE.

Tradition dictates that the fiancé should not see the gown before the Big Day so I had no idea what was in store. I had planned to copy the Prince William approach and be the last one the see her before she nestled beside me but the anticipation was unbearable. As soon as I caught a glimpse of her, I was breathless. I wasn’t expecting to be fighting back the tears. Don’t tell anyone. This should stay just between you and me.

I am now fortunate to have these photos of the moments leading to the ceremony.

Nikki in her white faux fur coat

There was no strict Mod dress code at our wedding. For apparent reasons, Mods weren’t the only attendees. We did appreciate the fact that some people went the extra mile to add that retro touch. I thought I would share with you a few of my top pics.

My beautiful cousin Ariane was wearing an early 70s dress given to her by her mother. It was hand made by a professional seamstress from a Vogue pattern, very sought after at that time. The long coat is a Stirling Cooper of London, designed by Antony Price. Price was known for designing the clothes for the Rolling Stones' 1969 American tour. Lou Reed and David Bowie were some of his other famous clients.

I had a soft spot for Virgine’s stunning 60s inspired dress. With bold colors and funky patterns, she definitely stood out.

 

I give a gold star to my mate Eric who had a great velvet double breasted black suit with a bright purple shirt. and silk scarf. That is the perfect mix of class and audacity. Well done my friend!

I can always count on my skinhead mates, Frank and Stephane, to show up looking smart and sharp. They are the best bodyguards you can wish for. 

My mate Jonathan proudly wearing his bespoke plum colored suit. His sense of style is hard to fault.

Special praise goes to my father-in-law for joining us in having a custom suit made for the occasion. Check out the ticket pocket!

I have to give it up to my friend DJ Lee Modern for choosing a bow tie instead of his customary slim tie. Love it!

My accomplice Dan Fiocco from the band Le Chelsea Beat is once again immaculate, wearing a smart classic 3-button jaket and crisp white button down shirt and slim tie. You just can't mess with a classic.

The Mod contingent didn't disappoint. Dressed to the nines, my mates stand proud. You can tell that these guys have an eye for details. This has to be one of my favorite photos of them all.

I had to finish with a few more images of the happy couple. So please indulge me one last time.

Parading in my grey suit

Switching to the burgandy suit for our first dance.

It's all about the details. Monogramed sleeve, vintage cufflinks and Ben Sherman chronograph watch

Having a Mod Wedding: Part I

 

Having a 21^st century Mod wedding for me didn’t mean recreating a scene from a London club circa 1964. It was more about the subtle details. Although the preparations might have been stressful at times, my wife and I were in sync about how we wanted things to look.

First, the venue. Our initial plan was to have the ceremony where my parents got married 42 years ago. It was in a small wooden log chapel overlooking Lake St-François in Port Lewis, about an hour’s drive outside of Montreal. Still standing, the place is truly magical and certainly has a sentimental connection. But when Nikki contacted the parish priest, it was strictly out of the question that we have a secular ceremony there. 

My parents at the beginning of a 42 year old love affair

After visiting a few other places that were simply “not us”, Nikki stumbled upon La Vieille Brasserie while surfing the web. Built in 1861 along the Lachine Canal, the stone building housed the Dawes Brewery. It was perfect! A century old building where they made tasty beer? Now THAT is us! It’s when we learnt that the building, now owned by the city of Montreal, could be rented at a discounted price to its residents, that we really started getting excited. But it’s when they told us that they charged a rate of 39$/hour for the entire building that we burst out dancing!

The first floor has an enclosed room where we held the ceremony, a cocktail area, a kitchen and restrooms. The second floor is a large loft space that can accommodate around 100 guests. It has a bar and a large cement terrace with a stunning view of the Lachine Canal. With beautiful stone walls and exposed wooden beams, there was no need for elaborate decorations. Plus, we are not the big balloons and large bows kind of people.

The wedding was a large friends and family affair. The officiant was one of our dearest friends. He’s actually the man responsible for introducing us to each other over 20 years ago. So instead of asking him to be my best man (like I was at his wedding), he agreed to ask the government for a one-time permission to serve as an official legal celebrant.

Gonzo sharing his own unique interpretation of the civil code and marriage vows

Gonzo fulfilling his duties, making certain it's official

Catherine was our charming hostess and bouncer boyfriend Guillaume managed the velvet rope for our red carpet event.

Our caterer was our good friend and renown chef, Stelio Perombelon from Restaurant Sinclair. He did double duties as he supervised the kitchen and attended the ceremony. I believe the verdict on the food was unanimous. It was absolutely delicious! Sometimes I just can’t believe how blessed we are to have such talented friends.

Our photographer was Emily, a personal friend, who was doing her first wedding. I think she was as excited as us and had concepts planned in her head for a long time. From what you’ll see on this blog, she has a bright future.

Thanks to Jean-François and Olivier from Scootart, we had a recently restored Vespa GS160 Mk1 for the photos. The owner of the shop, Jean-François, was kind enough to lend us his personal steed for a popular photo session. Judging from the results, it was well worth it.

The cake was baked by a family friend and was basically a gift. Not only was it exactly how we imagined it but it was also scrumptious! And to give you an idea of how tasty it was, not a single piece was left by the end of the night.

For the seating arrangements, we used vinyl records to identify each table. The band names were selected with the people sitting at the table in mind. For example, the only table that had kids had a Small Faces 45.

The wedding favors were small jars of jellybeans that had a familiar color theme and a mixed CD of our favorite Soul, Ska and Garage tunes. As a secret bonus track, my friend Daniel, guitarist for Le Chelsea Beat and I recorded a song we had practiced for months and performed for my wife as a surprise, later in the evening.

Friends graciously donated their time and provided the night’s entertainment. Three bands played and my mates Ben, Eric and I shared the spinning duties. They all did such a wonderful job that they deserve a blog post all of their own. To be continued…

Having a custom Mod suit made for a wedding

I didn't have a tailored Mod suit made for any wedding. It was actually for MY wedding. And why have only one suit made when you can have two made at the same time, right? I figured that I could have one for the ceremony and another one for the reception. It's not written anywhere in any secret Mod handbook that you need two outfits for your wedding but it was recently added as rule #216 of the Parka Avenue code.

So off I went with a bunch of mates of mine and my future father-in-law to meet with M. Sethinamvong from Prince Henry Tailors to have our measurements taken. To get an idea of what Prince Henry Tailors are all about, you might want to check this earlier post on Having a bespoke Mod suit made.

My mate Jonathan having his first bespoke suit made

My friend Eric and fellow blogger from The Vermodernist followed suit

Every time I have one made, I try to improve on my previous design just like the original Mods from the 60s would often do. I was ready to go the extra mile and have some unique features and details added. First, I had to decide on the color. I thought that a more conservative light grey would be appropriate for the ceremony and a funkier color palette would be acceptable for the evening festivities. I had my eye on a really bold and wild blue color until I saw my future mother-in-law's reaction when I showed her. Her face said it all. It's when she politely said: "You know Patrick, it's your choice" that I reconsidered. So I went with a slightly less audacious burgundy color. It wasn't as adventurous but it would still make a statement.

Crucial decisions to make

Most of my suit jackets are of the 4-button kind because you simply don't see them as often. For this occasion, I took the more traditional route with a 3-button jacket. I had the buttons covered for that extra Mod touch.

Most off-the-peg jackets these days usually don't have working cuffs. I thought it was one detail I wasn't going to let slip by.

The back of the jacket's collar was inspired but some of DNA Groove's stunning dress shirts. The downward point was also added to match the shirts I had made specifically to go with these jackets. A detail that his certainly not commonly seen but I'm sure a true Mod fashion aficionado would appreciate.

Another elaborate feature that might be out of the ordinary is the tapered "step" pant leg with decorative button. The 60s Mod would sometimes add these types of details simply to have something different and innovative. In this case, I simply think that it's a wonderful way to accentuate the boots or the shoes without the trousers being too short.

All the traditional features associated with the Mod suit were part of the overall look: narrow lapels, short jacket, slanted ticket pocket with flap, etc. To complete the look, I had a matching narrow silk tie and pocket square made at the same time. A new pair of Loake Chelsea boots was also in order. With an elegant watch, nice pair a vintage cufflinks and tie clip, the picture was complete.

To give you an idea of the intricate details that went into the suit, have a look at this video that was inspired by a Ross Jardine short film I saw on Youtube called Maximum Mod. My accomplice Veronique and I shot this on your basic digital camera, all in 2 days. I did the editing on my Mac in a couple of hours, a few days before the wedding. Let’s face it, it’s not professional by any stretch of the imagination but considering I had never edited a film before and wasn’t even familiar with the software, I’m very content with the outcome.

The film was shown right before my big entrance at the ceremony. The premise is simple. My dog Jedi comes up to me and warns me “Lassie style” that I’m going to be late for the wedding. And in true Mod fashion, I get ready while listening to the sweet sounds of Booker T and the MG’s Green Onions. Then it’s off to the ceremony by foot with Edwin Starr’s 25 Miles to Go as the soundtrack.

It was also meant as an ode to our fair city, Montreal. You’ll get a quick glimpse at some of downtown's most iconic spots like Chinatown, Palais des Congrès, City Hall, Old Montreal, Habitat ’67, the Atwater Market and the Lachine Canal. The final destination being, of course, La Vieille Brasserie, where the guests were awaiting my arrival...

Curious about the bride's dress? Coming up real soon...

Preparing a Mod wedding

Did I marry the right lady or what? I can’t say that my beautiful wife has ever been a Mod but when she suggested we have a target on the top of our wedding cake and a Vespa beside the  tiny  bride and groom, I knew that I was going to wed the perfect girl for me.

I wasn’t planning on having Mod nuptials but when she opened the door, who was I to say no to the bride? In fact, after my unconventional proposal (expect a future post on that story), I was prepared to say yes to all of her demands.

I noticed that she started doing Google searches with  “Mod”, “Vintage”, “Retro” and “Wedding” often being used in the search bar. You might find it hard to believe but I didn’t pull in any favors for this one. Yes folks, she is that wonderful! So we settled for a retro themed wedding. One thing we both agreed on is that we didn’t want a dressing up, costume party. We all know how a medieval or civil war type wedding can sometimes turn tacky and into a mockery. If you’re going down that road, you better make sure that all your guests are into it.

That’s why we didn’t put any restrictions on the dress code. We still wanted it to be Mod-ern. The personal twist we added was that we wanted the guests to feel like they were coming to a rock concert and that we were the main event. Both being huge music lovers, it suited us to a T. Plus we had planned to have 3 live acts play at the celebration. Simply put, music was going to take center stage.

I am proud to say that I designed our wedding invitations. Inspired by a 60s concert ticket, guests were invited to send the stub back as their RSVP. On the back, the "disclaimer" informed our guests of the different formalities. You could read such useful information as: "The use of cameras, audio or video recording devices are strictly encouraged. The management reserves the right to ask for doubles."

At the same time, I came up with a logo. Every star duo has one, right? It was going to be used mainly on our guest's favors. As I was working on its simple design, I realized that my wedding date was the 9-10-11. Now I have absolutely no excuse for ever forgetting my wedding anniversary!

I also commissioned a poster from a very talented American artist friend of mine. Ashlea did an absolute fantastic psychedelic / mod masterpiece of Nikki and I ridding a Vespa. My wife's resemblance is uncanny. But the real feat is when Ashlea actually succeeded in rendering me attractive. Now that takes a truly skilled artist! Bravo!

We had a 24' X 36' version printed on foam board and a few smaller versions to scater around.

Although getting married is stressful, the preparations went pretty smoothly, a testament to our relationship. The next step was to have my wedding suit done. But I don't consider that a task. That's just fun! Read all about it in the next post...